Who doesn’t love sex? While I’m sure the answer for just about everyone on the planet is a resounding yes, there is something even more special about making love to someone that you actually love with all of your heart. With that in mind, what better gift to give to your loved one than a product (or products) that enhance how the two of you make love to each other? Sex toys are the safe and effective way to make sex so much better than ever before.

Buying a sex toy can definitely be intimidating and even confusing for first-time buyers, but luckily there are a lot of great places to meet the needs of you and your loved one. If you really don’t know where to begin, Blissful Cherry is a great place to start, in our expert opinion. The most important thing to consider when buying a sex toy for your loved one is knowing exactly how they get turned on. No person is exactly the same, and so it is important to select a sex toy that they will actually enjoy using. We definitely recommend having honest discussions with your partner about what specific things turn them on sexually to help you select the perfect toy for him or her. If it’s not a surprise gift, then you can even talk to them about the specific toys you were looking to buy for them, to see how they feel about them first.

If your partner isn’t sure about how they would feel about a certain sex toy, do not hesitate to go ahead and purchase it anyway. Experimentation is a healthy part of any couple’s sex life, and there is a good chance that they’ll love the new sensations that the toy provides to them. One other thing to keep in mind is that sometimes it takes a few tries before they will really know if they like any given sex toy or not. Anal toys, and anal sex in general, are good examples of this, as many people don’t like anal the first time doing it, but after the second or third time, they absolutely love it. Be patient with your partner and be sure to let them explore their own bodies without any pressure or expectations.

While sex toys are not necessarily for everyone, there is a very good chance that you or your loved one can find at least one new sex toy that will bring new and exciting fun to the bedroom, if not multiple toys. As long as you communicate and listen to your partner both before and during your sex toy journey, the sex that the two of you have will be out of this world!